
Arizona State professors share how our relationships with each other, the world around us and ourselves can make us happy
Depending on who you ask, happiness can be a lot of things.The Dalai Lama might tell you that happiness is the practice of compassion.
A song by soul legend Al Green tells us it’s “when you really feel good about somebody.”
If you ask an average Joe, they could tell you it’s tied to their life circumstances.
But scientifically speaking — it's a mix.
“Research suggests that about 40 percent of our well-being and happiness is within our control, something we can adapt through our actions and the way we behave,” said Sarah Tracy, Herberger Professor of organizational communication and qualitative methodology at Arizona State University’s Hugh Downs School of Human Communication.
“About 50 percent is genetic. And then only 10 percent of it is due to circumstances: things like how much money we have or how good-looking we are. We think it’s our circumstances that make us happy, but it‘s really only a small amount.”
The mere fact that the subject of happiness — what it is, how to get it, who deserves it — holds such a commanding presence in the human psyche suggests just how important it is to life itself.
In any case, the pursuit of it is considered a God-given right. So in the spirit of the new year and new beginnings, ASU Now asked a handful of professors from various disciplines how we might best go about that. It turns out that happiness has a lot to do with relationships — with each other, with the world around us and with ourselves.
Social happiness

Sarah Tracy
In her teaching,
Tracy focuses on the 40 percent of our well-being and happiness that is
within our control, and within that, specifically on communication.
Since 2009, she has offered both undergraduate and graduate courses on
the “Communication of Happiness.”
The goal of the course is to help students think about ways to build happiness in their life.
“A
lot of the things we can do in the world to improve our happiness,
which is also called subjective well-being, are things that are
learnable,” she said.
Students learn to build on skills they
already have, like expressing gratitude by being more conscious of
saying thank you in everyday life. Other assignments range from joining a
club to planning a family get-together where you interact in ways you
haven’t before.
“The happiest people in the world are those that have a rich social life,” Tracy said.
There’s
also a whole section on coping with anxiety, which Tracy cautions can
be brought on by too much social interaction, often in the form of
social media, and can cause an unhealthy preoccupation with comparison.
“Social comparison is a killer of happiness,” she said, “and social media is a huge tool of social comparison.”
Tracy
teaches students methods they can use to make that kind of anxiety more
manageable, such as writing through it, meditating, exercising (she
calls this “the quickest mood enhancer) and simply unplugging for a
while.
“The skills it takes to increase happiness aren’t
complicated, but they take discipline. It’s like a situp; it’s not
complicated, but it takes discipline to do it enough to make a
difference,” she said.
Environmental happiness

Scott Cloutier
As
an environmental engineering undergrad, ASU sustainability Assistant
Professor Scott Cloutier became frustrated with a class project that
asked students to think about how they would build a water treatment
plant. Not because it was difficult, but because he was only asked to
consider the logistics, not the people who would be using them, working
in them and living with them in their communities.
“I started thinking,” he recalled, “‘If I was an engineer, what would I design for?’ Happiness.”
After that revelation, Cloutier designed his doctoral dissertation around building a happy neighborhood.
At ASU, he leads the Sustainable Neighborhoods for Happiness project and has developed the “Sustainability Through Happiness Index,”
a tool that allows planners to engage with neighborhood residents and
collaborate to better understand and implement changes that will create
happy places to live.
“When we design for pleasure, we’re wasteful. And people confuse happiness with pleasure,” he said.
In
Tempe, for example, Cloutier explained, “we could easily go to Mill
Avenue, eat all kinds of food, get drunk and buy all kinds of stuff. But
there are a lot of consequences to that kind of pleasure-seeking,
instant-gratification way of living, environmentally and socially.”
Consequences like gentrification and damage to natural habitats.
Through
the Sustainable Neighborhoods for Happiness project, Cloutier has
worked with communities in locales as far-flung as Mexico, Bolivia and
Denmark. And while the factors that determine what makes a happy place
to live can vary based on culture and economics, there are plenty of
similarities: a sense of safety and belonging, environmental design that
promotes social interaction and access to open and green spaces.
“Some
of the happiest places are where people lose their sense of self and
instead consider themselves part of something bigger,” he said. “If we
think of happiness as coming from having a deep connection with nature
and the natural cycle of the world around us, we can start to move
toward a more sustainable future.”
Individual happiness

Shannon Tromp
Positive
psychology, a relatively new area of focus within the broader field of
psychology, has been gaining traction in recent years. It posits that we
can scientifically quantify and predict happiness by measuring and
learning from how various cultures define life satisfaction and
well-being.
Shannon Tromp, a lecturer in the School of Social and
Behavioral Sciences at ASU’s New College of Interdisciplinary Arts and
Sciences, has been teaching a course on it for about a year.
“It
allows students to focus on the areas of the field that relate to the
actual mechanics and components of what makes us happy, what makes life
good,” she said.
Students learn about the historical and cultural
differences related to the idea of happiness, and also try out personal
life-enhancing techniques for themselves, such as meditation, gratitude
journals and affirmations.
“As an example,” Tromp said, “applying
aspects of character virtues (such as integrity, tolerance, zeal),
spirituality and appreciation, and engaging in service to others are all
things that show up again and again as being consistent with improving
life satisfaction.
“Understanding how those variables can apply
universally or cross-culturally can help an individual modify their own
experience and make positive change in their own lives.”
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